Irrationality

Your own future decided outside of your own ability, and you tried your best, but it still cannot change anything. I believe that everyone has experienced this situation, some people will feel angry or frustration. My position is Powerlessness, the reason is that irrationality can be seen everywhere in the society, so we don’t need to carry feeling and thinking about irrational future related on yourself. You only waste time to recall memory, because you cannot change anything.

I worked in a travel agent. Since I have some academic problems in Hong Kong, so I must be leave Hawaii for three months. I told with my boss that I can quit this job because I leave 3 months, I don’t want to bring burden for company. My boss said that I can hold for you come back Hawaii. After 3 months when I came back Hawaii and call my boss to let her know, but she said that we already hire other person to cover you job. At that time I will very angry, but when I calm down and thinking this case. I understand once thing, I cannot do anything.

Disappointment & Hope

Today, I will talk topic kind of negative thinking. I do not advocate this idea, but it helped me to relax tension feeling. If a thing is disappointment, it is better not to hope in the beginning. People will have better efficiency, when they have a goal in job, so many times people will set a goal for themselves. On the other hands, if you cannot accomplish your goals, it will bring a lot of negative emotions, such as unhappy, despair or frustration. Therefore, some people will not hope at the beginning.

Give up

Since all the things are important, so people do not want to give up anything. But it will have a day give up some of them, in order to don’t give up the most important thing. The reason is that if you do not decisively give up something, you will lose everything.

I give up the tings is a dog. My friend adopts a dog from Humane Society, but he need to go China about 2 months. Therefore, I help him to look after this dog. However, he said that he cannot adopt this dog, because he have overseas job in other country. Since this dog already 6 years old, the staff in Humane Society said that it will be death when nobody adopts it in 3 weeks. After that I plan a lot of things for adopt this dog. Finally I give up adopting this dog, because I have family and academic problems. 

Know => Comprehend

Know and understand are two different things. Humans will make decisions from their knowledge, but people will take action by sensibility. When there have a conflict between sense and sensibility, people will choose what they want to be. Therefore, people know information and understand the theory is difference. Person understands the theory that can suppress their emotional or let their emotional accept a decision.

I already 23 years old. Since I know that I cannot waste my time and life in here so I take 6 classes in the spring 2014. But I thought of giving up at the beginning of the semester. The reason is that I worry a busy schedule will affect the resting time. Finally, I understand that I already lost the right to rest, and dispel the idea of ​​giving up.

Black&Gray&White

One things is not right means wrong thing, this is not a bad idea, but the world is not that simple. Almost all things are carried out in the ambiguity.

This theory is difficult to understand in the schools, because teachers should teach the right knowledge to students. For example, student achievement come from the teacher believe that is the right things or knowledge. If the teachers feel you reply a wrong answer, they will deny your answers and give you 0 point on the question.

My first exposure to this theory is I disagree with each other’s position in the work place. Since he has always insisted his approach, so i put down own ideas, and let matters develop naturally.